Can you find your own husband alone?




One of my friends got me this article. It’s an amazing true story by Sarita James "Mom, Dad, Let Me Find My Own Husband "but i have lots of questions, lets see:

how much responsibility parents should take to find a suitable husband for their daughter? How do the teens and young adults respond and respect their parents role in the relationship? How do they react; with frustration, joyful, trust, respect, adjustment, sacrifice or Rejection?, where do you stand when your parents choose your bride or groom?

Can you find your own husband alone? are you capable ? if you are, why after 2-3 years of dating do you break up? is it like a game or you want to have experience with another guy or girl? one mother asked me how much guidance/involvement we parents should give to our children. many parents are afraid to be involve in their own children's relationships. what are we men/women really looking in relationship? do you have commitment? do you consider that suitable men is, someone who comes from the right religion, region, community and family background? Are they willing to sacrifice their life for you?

I was invited for thanksgiving dinner by a friend of mine during my 4 hours stay I counted 35 times the 8 years old kid and father saying to each other, Son :”I love you dad" and Father :” I love you son”. that was amazing to hear the real love of father and son’ in their relationship. Is it real expression, or just words?. What happens when the children grow up? will the love be gone? and the relationship, the caring, the family?, how can you avoid the parents, when you are making the most important relationship with a stranger?.

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